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I am a Wife, Mother, and Entrepreneur I chose having my own business because it gives me the flexibility of being home with my family. I am also a caregiver for my mom. I love movies at home or out, my favorite place to watch movies is the dine in theater. I believe in love thy neighbor ,and treating people the way you would want to be treated.

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17 March, 2018 10:24

People Are More Important Than Things
by Joyce Meyer

Do not love or cherish the world or the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him. —1 John 2:15

One day my previous housekeeper was cooking a roast for us in the pressure cooker. She did something wrong and the valve blew off the top, shooting steam, roast, grease, potatoes, and carrots straight up into the air. The ceiling fan above the stove was on full speed. It caught the food and grease and sent them flying all over the kitchen walls, ceiling, floor, furniture—and the housekeeper. When I came home from work, she was sitting in a corner of the kitchen, crying. She looked so bad I thought she had received some tragic news. I finally got her to tell me what had happened; and when she did, I started laughing. By the time Dave came in, she and I were both laughing hysterically. She said, “I’ve destroyed your kitchen!”

I remember telling her, “The kitchen can be replaced, but you can’t. You’re more important than the kitchen. Thank God you’re not hurt.” There was a time in my life when that would not have been my response. Before I learned that people are more important than things, I would have become angry and said things to make the housekeeper feel stupid and guilty.

If we love people, God can replace things; but if we love things excessively, we may lose people who cannot be replaced.

From the book New Day, New You by Joyce Meyer. Copyright © 2006 by Joyce Meyer. Published by FaithWords. All rights reserved.

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No, I Will Not Tone Down My Blackness For You — Thought Catalog

Vlad Tchompalov / Unsplash“Oh, we have one of those,” the boy said. Stunned, I gawked at him as my mind reeled in confused thoughts. “What do you mean, ‘one of those?’” I asked. “I’m kidding,” the boy responded, laughing along with his friend. This was a small interaction I had with a white male student…

via No, I Will Not Tone Down My Blackness For You — Thought Catalog


I choose to be candid, telling the truth, but it seems like when I do people take it the wrong way.  I shouldn’t say people I should say my family . I am always honest with them, and they don’t like it . You know how they say the truth hurts , yeah my kids feel the pain when I tell them the truth.

When I’m candid they tell me it’s something wrong with me. Now you probably saying I bet she can’t handle the truth I say bring it on.  I want you to be candid tell me the truth don’t sit there and lie to me . I always say the truth will set you free, why lie I’m going to find out anyway.

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